“I like to say it’s an attitude of not just thinking outside the box, but not even seeing the box.”
– Safra A. Catz
In today’s fast-paced world, we’re often taught that the only way to achieve our dreams is through hard work, hustle, and relentless effort. However, what if I told you that you can achieve the life you desire by embracing a more balanced and intentional approach?
By tapping into your feminine habits, you can create a life and business that not only feels more aligned but also flows more effortlessly.
In this blog post, I’ll share with you the feminine habits that helped me build my dream business, Seven Sisters & Co., and how you can use them to create the life of your dreams.
The Importance of Both Masculine and Feminine Energy
Before diving into the tips, it’s essential to understand the balance between masculine and feminine energy. Like everything in nature, both energies have their place. The masculine provides structure, direction, and a container for creative energy, while the feminine offers flow, intuition, and nurturing.
Just as conceiving a child requires both male and female components, building a dream life or project requires a blend of masculine and feminine energies. For many years, I operated primarily in my masculine energy—working hard to complete my doctorate, write books, and maintain a 9-to-5 job. While I achieved many of my goals, I eventually realized that the moments of true magic in my life happened when I leaned into my feminine energy.
By embracing this softer, more nurturing side of myself, I could travel the world, meet my soulmate, and connect with incredible people who helped bring my vision to life. You can use feminine habits to build your dream business, just as I did.
What Are 5 Useful tips for using Feminine habits to build your dream business?
Tip 1: Slow Down and Be Mindful of Your Steps
There’s a saying I love that goes, “Slow down to speed up.” In our fast-paced society, we’re often pushed to keep moving, to do more, and to achieve quickly. However, there’s immense power in slowing down and becoming more mindful of each step you take.
When I started building my business, I consciously decided to walk more slowly through life. Instead of rushing from one task to the next, I took time to be present and savor each moment. This allowed me to connect more deeply with my intuition, make better decisions, and build a business that felt authentic to who I am.
How to Apply This:
- Start each day with a slow morning routine, whether it’s journaling, meditating, or simply taking a few moments to breathe deeply.
- Be present in each task you undertake, whether it’s working on your business or spending time with loved ones.
- Allow yourself to pause and reflect regularly, ensuring that your actions align with your goals and values.
Tip 2: Be Open to Receiving Help
One of the most powerful lessons I learned was the importance of being open to receiving help. When I was operating primarily in my masculine energy, I rarely asked for assistance. I believed that if I wanted something done, I had to do it myself. This mindset left me feeling exhausted and overwhelmed.
However, when I started my company, I noticed that amazing people who had already walked the path I was on started appearing in my life. They offered guidance, mentorship, and support. I had to learn to accept their help graciously and recognize that receiving assistance didn’t make me weak—it made me stronger.
How to Apply This:
- Practice asking for help, whether it’s from a mentor, friend, or family member.
- Be open to the guidance and support that comes your way, even if it feels uncomfortable at first.
- Understand that allowing others to help you creates space for even greater opportunities and growth.
Tip 3: Focus on the Feeling of Your Desired Goal
One of the most profound shifts I made was focusing on the feeling of my desired goal rather than the goal itself. In our society, we often chase external achievements, believing they’ll bring us happiness or fulfillment. However, it’s the feelings we’re truly after—feelings of joy, freedom, abundance, or love.
By focusing on how I wanted to feel in my business, I was able to align my actions with those feelings. This not only made the journey more enjoyable but also helped me manifest my goals more effortlessly.
How to Apply This:
- Instead of focusing solely on the end result, ask yourself how you want to feel when you achieve your goal.
- Use visualization and meditation to tap into those feelings daily.
- Allow your desired emotions to guide your actions, making decisions that align with the way you want to feel.
Tip 4: Practice Gratitude More Often
Gratitude is a powerful feminine habit that can transform your life and business. When we focus on what we’re grateful for, we shift our energy from lack to abundance, attracting more of what we desire into our lives.
In my journey of building Seven Sisters & Co., I made it a daily practice to acknowledge the blessings and opportunities around me. This simple act of gratitude helped me stay positive, even during challenging times, and allowed me to attract more of the right people and opportunities into my business.
How to Apply This:
- Start a daily gratitude journal, writing down at least three things you’re thankful for each day.
- Practice expressing gratitude to the people who support you, whether it’s through a kind word, a thank-you note, or a small gesture.
- Focus on the positives in every situation, even when things don’t go as planned.
Tip 5: Take Better Care of Yourself (Practice Self-Care)
As I embarked on the journey of building my dream business, I realized that taking care of myself was non-negotiable. I wasn’t willing to sacrifice my health, well-being, or peace for the sake of success. I learned that when I took better care of myself, the world around me responded positively.
Living in Southeast Asia for the past few years taught me the importance of self-care and how it can set the tone for how the world treats you. By affirming my self-worth and prioritizing my health, I was able to create a business that aligned with my values and brought me joy.
How to Apply This:
- Schedule regular self-care practices, such as massages, exercise, meditation, or simply spending time in nature.
- Set boundaries that protect your time, energy, and well-being.
